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The Wedding Planning Checklist

The same month-by-month task list that powers planning on United Vows β€” print it, or sign up free and it tracks itself against your actual wedding date.

12+ months out

  • Define Your Wedding Visionkey task

    Set your style, color palette, and guest experience goals so every decision aligns with your vision.

  • Set Your Wedding Budgetkey task

    Determine your total budget and allocate funds across all categories.

  • Create Initial Guest Listkey task

    Draft your guest list to determine venue size and catering needs.

  • Choose Your Wedding Datekey task

    Select 2-3 preferred dates considering season, venue availability, and guest convenience.

  • Book Ceremony & Reception Venuekey task

    Secure your venue to lock in the date, guest capacity, and layout so you can book vendors with confidence.

  • Hire Wedding Planner

    A planner can save you time, stress, and often money through vendor relationships.

9–12 months out

  • Book Catering & Bar Servicekey task

    Hire catering and bar services to ensure your guests are well-fed and the drinks flow smoothly.

  • Book Photographerkey task

    Secure a photographer whose style matches your vision and who can capture every moment beautifully.

  • Book Videographer

    Hire a videographer to capture your wedding day in cinematic quality.

  • Shop for Wedding Dress/Suitkey task

    Find and purchase your wedding attire.

  • Get Event Insurance

    Purchase wedding insurance to protect against cancellations and unforeseen issues.

  • Book Ceremony Musicians

    Hire musicians or DJ for ceremony music to set the perfect tone as you walk down the aisle.

  • Book Reception DJ or Bandkey task

    Hire entertainment for your reception to keep guests dancing all night.

  • Book Officiantkey task

    Hire an officiant to perform your ceremony.

  • Choose Wedding Party

    Ask your bridesmaids, groomsmen, and other attendants.

6–9 months out

  • Schedule Engagement Photo Session

    Book an engagement shoot for save-the-dates and website photos.

  • Book Floristkey task

    Hire a florist to bring your floral vision to life with bouquets, centerpieces, and ceremony arrangements.

  • Order Bridesmaid Dresses

    Choose and order bridesmaid dresses or coordinate attire.

  • Order Save-the-Dates

    Design and send save-the-dates so guests can block off your wedding date.

  • Research Honeymoon Destinations

    Start planning your post-wedding getaway. Some destinations need visas.

  • Mail Save-the-Dates

    Send save-the-dates to your guest list 6-8 months before the wedding.

  • Order Wedding Cake

    Book your cake designer and schedule a tasting.

  • Order Groomsmen Attire

    Select and order suits or tuxedos for groomsmen.

  • Book Hair & Makeup Artistskey task

    Secure professionals for wedding day beauty services.

  • Book Transportation

    Arrange transportation for wedding party and guests.

  • Reserve Hotel Room Blocks

    Reserve hotel blocks for out-of-town guests.

  • Register for Gifts

    Create registries at 2-3 stores across different price points.

3–6 months out

  • Design Wedding Invitationskey task

    Create and order your formal wedding invitations.

  • Attend Menu Tastingkey task

    Sample dishes and finalize your wedding menu.

  • Choose Wedding Ringskey task

    Select and order your wedding bands.

  • Order Wedding Accessories

    Purchase shoes, jewelry, veil, and other accessories.

  • Conduct Venue Site Visit

    Visit venue with key vendors to plan setup, logistics, and timeline.

  • Order Personal Flowers

    Finalize bridal bouquet, bridesmaid bouquets, boutonnieres, and corsages.

  • Choose First Dance Song

    Select your first dance song and practice if needed.

  • Schedule Dress Alterationskey task

    Have your wedding attire tailored for the perfect fit.

  • Order Wedding Favors

    Select and purchase thank-you gifts for guests.

1–3 months out

  • Create Must-Have Photo List

    Share a list of specific shots and family groupings with your photographer.

  • Create Video Shot List

    Discuss key moments and style preferences with your videographer.

  • Finalize Floral Design

    Approve final floral arrangements, centerpieces, bouquets, and boutonnieres.

  • Create Must-Play & Do-Not-Play Lists

    Share your music preferences and special songs with your DJ/band.

  • Mail Wedding Invitationskey task

    Send invitations 6-8 weeks before the wedding.

  • Order Ceremony Programs & Menus

    Design and print programs, menus, and other day-of stationery.

  • Plan Rehearsal Dinner

    Organize rehearsal dinner for wedding party and close family.

  • Write Vows

    Start drafting your vows. Read them aloud for timing (aim for 1-2 minutes).

  • Finalize Guest Count for Cateringkey task

    Provide final headcount to caterer for accurate food and beverage planning.

  • Finalize Photography Timelinekey task

    Coordinate with photographer on timing for getting ready, first look, ceremony, and portraits.

  • Track RSVPskey task

    Monitor responses and follow up with guests who haven't replied.

  • Create Seating Chartkey task

    Assign tables and seats for all guests.

  • Create Day-of Timelinekey task

    Build a detailed timeline for your wedding day and share with all vendors.

  • Confirm All Vendor Detailskey task

    Send timeline and contact info to every vendor. Confirm arrival times.

  • Final Venue Walkthroughkey task

    Walk through setup, layout, and logistics with your venue coordinator.

The final month

  • Print Place Cards & Escort Cards

    Create and print seating assignments.

  • Obtain Marriage Licensekey task

    Visit your local courthouse to get your marriage license.

  • Conduct Wedding Rehearsalkey task

    Run through ceremony with wedding party and officiant.

  • Pack Wedding Day Emergency Kit

    Prepare a kit with safety pins, stain remover, Band-Aids, and other essentials.

  • Prepare Tip Envelopes

    Prepare cash tips for vendors in labeled envelopes.

  • Pack for Honeymoon

    Pack bags in advance so you can leave right after the reception or next morning.

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